I've just begun reading Order from Chaos by Jacklyn Paul. When I came across this paragraph, I shouted, "Yes! Exactly."

There's a difference between making things easy and making things possible. [snip] As my husband puts it, "medication gives you a choice where you didn't have one before. You're still responsible for making the right choice." [snip] [Meds] don't do the work for us. They only make the work as easy or hard as it is for everyone else.